Learn Some New Sex Moves
Time to level up your rodeo skills, cowboy.
That means exploring every corner of your partner’s body and-
figuring out exactly what makes them squirm with pleasure.
We’ve put together a little guide to level up your lovemaking, with all of the most exciting sexual positions for you to try out at home, to get you ready to break the beds (and blow the minds) of anyone you play with.
Whether you're looking to spice things up in your monogamous relationship or explore non-monogamous dynamics like swinging, these practical steps will help you navigate these new waters with ease and excitement.
5 UNIQUE SEXUAL POSITIONS
Missionary with a Twist
Start off, with some simple additions to a classic.
Elevate your hips with a pillow for deeper penetration and use a vibrator for increased pleasure.
Experiment with eye contact and intimate communication for added intimacy (as in, add some dirty talk).
Doggy Style Variations
You might think there is only one way to do doggy, but it’s all about the angles, my friend.
Try holding one of her legs, to the side, while you enter her. Or take a squat position over her, and unleash the jackhammer.
Also, don’t forget to use your hands for things like nipple play or anal play, while you're giving it your all.
Ride Like a Cowgirl
The basic straddle, which you can add a variation to.
Try either keeping him inside you and grinding as you do, or bouncing up and down on it. Experiment with different speeds and motions to find what feels best for both partners.
Increase the intimacy, with some sensual touching and kissing.
Spoon for Extra heat
People seem to think spooning is simply for after you’re done having sex, but they’d be wrong.
Spooning is a great way to get really intimate and slow things down, which’ll keep your relationship warm & full of love. Here’s what you do: get cozy in the spooning position and explore slow and sensual movements. Focus on deep breathing and syncing your rhythms for heightened intimacy.
Timing your orgasms together, will really push it over the edge.
Build The Bridge
Last, but definitely not least, is for couples who like to push themselves (physically).
Start in the missionary position and lift your hips off the bed, forming a bridge. If your bed is close enough to a wall, you can put your feet up, for some extra support, or get your man to hold them up for you.
Experiment with different angles and depths of penetration for a really unique experience.
Positions to Prepare You for Swinging
Here are some popular positions to prime you for the lifestyle.
These are perfect for preparing you for your first threesome, or to give you an idea of what to expect in a foursome or group play.
The Eifel Tower
The bread & butter of the MFM relationship, this position involves one person in the middle performing oral sex on one partner while being penetrated by the other from behind.
If everyone is comfortable, the guys can even high-five or lock hands, to form the iconic Tower shape.
Hey! It’s sex, have fun with it.
The Face Hugger
A simple variation on pleasuring your partner.
Instead of giving them oral the usual way, coming at it from the front, you instead let them sit on your face, or position yourself close to their face. This will prepare you, for things like a MFF or MFM threesome.
Say you want another man present; this prepares you to pleasure both at the same time or if you’re bisexual, you’ll be able to have your cake & eat it too.
The Lazy Susan
This is a great one, to prepare you for swinging, by getting you used to switching partners, by switching who’s in control.
It starts with the receiving partner lying on their back while the giving partner rotates between different positions around them.
Start in a missionary position for penetration, then rotate to a side position, a kneeling position, and finally end up in a reverse cowgirl/boy position.
This rotation helps build the feeling of change and novelty.
Conclusion
By trying out these new sexual positions together,
you can really crank up your sexual confidence and strengthen your connection.
Whether you're keeping it monogamous or getting ready to explore non-monogamy, communication, trust, and mutual consent are your best friends.
So, dive into this journey with excitement and an open mind, and
