The world’s largest international swinging lifestyle community!

If you’re serious about swinging, this site is where it all happens. You can meet couples near you, find parties and clubs, and even connect with travelers passing through your area.

With expert tips, media resources, and groups tailored to your interests, it’s the ultimate hub for anyone looking to embrace the lifestyle.

The go-to hub for swingers looking to connect and play.

As an experienced swinger, I can tell you, this site is a goldmine—it’s where you’ll find like-minded couples, awesome parties, and endless opportunities to explore.

Whether you're dipping your toes in or fully diving into the lifestyle, SLS makes it easy to meet great people and find events that match your vibe.

Meet swingers and learn the ropes.

SwingTowns is the perfect starting point if you’re new to swinging—
or even if you’ve been around for a while. It’s designed to help you connect with local events and make meaningful connections.

The platform’s intuitive layout and welcoming community make it easy to dive into the lifestyle and meet people who share your passions.

Looking to network with other swingers?

Fab Swingers is known for its super active community, and being one of the easiest places to meet people. You can browse profiles, join events, and connect with others near you pretty easily.

What I appreciate is how straightforward it is. It’s welcoming whether you’re just starting out or have been in the lifestyle for years, and there’s always something going on.

The Home of Swinging Advice.

If you’re new to swinging or just curious, head to Reddit’s R/Swingers. It’s packed with first-hand stories, honest advice, and tips from people in the lifestyle.

This is the perfect place to learn from real experiences and get answers to all your questions, no matter where you are in your journey.

The “must-have” book for any ENM beginner.

The Ethical Slut was one of the first books we read when we started exploring non-monogamy, and it’s still a favorite.

It’s fun, down-to-earth, and packed with practical advice about how to navigate open relationships. Whether you’re just curious or diving in, it covers everything—from communication and jealousy to building meaningful connections beyond monogamy.

What stood out for us was how it celebrated the freedom to love and connect on your OWN terms, without guilt or shame. It’s not just a guide; it’s like having a wise, supportive friend cheering you on.

If you’re new to this world, this book is the perfect starting point.

Sex at Dawn is one of those books that really sticks with you.

It pulls back the curtain on human sexuality, exploring how our ancestors lived and loved before modern monogamy took hold.

The authors make a bold case that humans might not be naturally wired for lifelong monogamy, and they back it up with some truly fascinating research into our evolutionary past.

What I loved most is how readable it is—this isn’t some dry, academic lecture. It’s thought-provoking without being heavy-handed and feels more like a lively conversation than anything else.

Even if you don’t agree with everything, it’s an eye-opener that will leave you thinking and definitely talking.

The #1 challenge for long-term relationships? Keeping desire alive.

That’s where Mating in Captivity really hit home for us. Esther Perel has this incredible way of explaining why desire can fade, even when the love is still there. She doesn’t just point out the problem—she explores how couples can bring back that spark without losing the closeness they’ve built.

For us, it wasn’t about fixing anything broken, but about seeing our relationship in a whole new way. Her ideas on balancing security and excitement really stuck with us, and we found ourselves talking about them long after we finished the book.

If you’re curious about how to keep things exciting and connected, this one’s a game-changer.

This completely changed the way we think about relationships.

It starts off by diving into attachment theory in a way that feels personal and relatable, showing how you can build emotional security even while exploring non-monogamy.

It’s not just about polyamory—it’s about understanding yourself, your needs, and how to create deeper trust and intimacy with your partner.

What we loved most was how compassionate and practical it was. The advice isn’t one-size-fits-all; it feels like it’s written for real people with real emotions, not just theories.

If you’re navigating openness and want stronger, more connected relationships, this book is an absolute must-read.

This isn’t t just another guide to non-monogamy.

It’s THE toolbox for navigating the messier sides of open relationships. Things like vulnerability, fear, and unspoken needs, are all broken down in ways that feel doable, not overwhelming.

What I appreciated most, is how the book gives you actionable steps for creating a secure emotional foundation with your primary. It’s less about abstract theory and more about real-world tools you can start using today—whether it’s improving your communication, understanding your partner’s needs, or healing after a rough patch.

If you’ve been struggling with emotional bumps in the road or just want to make sure your connection stays strong, this book is your best friend.

Like sitting down with those friends who really get the lifestyle.

The hosts are experienced swingers, so all of the practical advice they’re giving you comes from having seen it all themselves.

But their relaxed, down-to-earth conversations make the lifestyle feel accessible and fun for anyone.

Whether you’re new to the scene or already in the mix, this podcast is a laid-back, relatable way to learn and laugh your way through the ups and downs of non-monogamy.

The safe space every new ENM couple needs.

What makes it special is how honest and approachable they are—no judgment, no fluff, just real stories and advice that actually helps.

They dive into the stuff that matters most, like keeping the spark alive, managing emotions, and building trust. But they also remind you to have fun and embrace the joy that openness can bring.

If you’ve ever felt unsure about where to start or just want to know you’re not alone, this podcast is like a roadmap and a pep talk rolled into one.

Rewriting the Rules of Modern Love

What sets Multiamory apart isn’t just its focus on polyamory and open relationships—it’s how Dedeker, Jase, and Emily tackle the messy, beautiful, and often challenging realities of human connection.

They bring more than just advice; they offer real, actionable tools to build stronger relationships.

Whether it’s learning conflict resolution, overcoming insecurities, or redefining your boundaries. Their vulnerability and humor make even the trickiest topics approachable.

For Swingers who like to explore love on a global scale.

Wanderlust Swingers (formerly Swinging Down Under) takes you on a journey through the swinging lifestyle, with hosts C and D sharing their experiences from around the world. Their lively stories and candid discussions make this podcast an exciting listen for those curious about the global swinging scene.

If you're looking to spice up your adventures or just want to hear what swinging is like in different corners of the world, this podcast is your passport to the lifestyle.

Perfect for solo women looking to explore swinging.

Rosie Kay’s This Kinda Girl is like catching up with a friend who’s not afraid to spill the tea. She’s funny, honest, and totally unfiltered as she talks about sex, relationships, and figuring out what really makes you tick.

What makes her stand out? She doesn’t pretend to have all the answers. Instead, it’s like she’s learning and growing alongside you, which makes everything she shares feel refreshingly real.