One Honest Conversation Changed Everything.
“I love you with everything
I have, but I need to have sex
a lot more than we do.”
Our Story began with me saying:
When I spoke these words to my wife of 8 years I was desperate for a change.
I loved her deeply (still do), but we were having sex every other month and that just wasn't enough for me.
Rather than doing what many other couples seem to do in this all too common scenario, I chose not to "suffer in silence" or go out and have an affair. I decided to have an adult conversation.
The talks were Difficult. Long. Uncomfortable.
But necessary.
Five years LATER, Here’s Where we are NOW:
Our marriage → rock solid with loads of laughter
Our love → pure and deep
Our sex life → plentiful and adventurous
Our health → best shape of our lives
Our personal happiness → off the charts
THE SOLUTION THAT WORKED FOR US?
Ethical Non-Monogamy.
Yes, it took a lot of trial and error, but—
Yes, it was totally worth it.
We're not saying it's THE answer.
We're saying it's AN answer—
for more couples than you'd expect.
THAT'S WHY WE BUILT OPENLY.
Because we wish we had a guide when we started.
Because you deserve to know all your options.
Because love shouldn't feel like a prison.
And to show that non-monogamy isn't about fixing what's broken—
It's about building something beautifully different, together.
But building something new sometimes takes guidance.
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WE WISH WE HAD
AT THE START.
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The Questions we Get Asked the Most
Our journey involved a lot of tough challenges.
And even tougher conversations, but we overcame them all and built
the kind of relationship we thought, was literally impossible.
So, if you’re struggling with some doubts or some fears, and
need a guiding hand on your own journey—
We’re here for you.
Ease into it and dive into some of the biggest questions:
Other couples asked us
Our friends asked us, and
We asked ourselves
When we first decided to open our relationship up to more.
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