GET THE SEX LIFE YOU WANT,
WITH THE PARTNER YOU HAVE.
Love your partner but craving more passion? Openly helps bring the spark back
to your bedroom & explore new fantasies—without risking what you have.
Upgrade your relationship and never surf Pornhub alone again.
Not sure? Take our 2-minute quiz to find your best path.
DREAMING ABOUT HAVING
A THREESOME?
You’re not alone. It’s the world’s most common fantasy—in fact, 95% of men and 87% of women secretly want one.
But only 3% make it happen, mostly out of fear it’ll hurt their relationship. When in reality, all they need is the right tools.
We know. We’re part of the few that pulled it off, but getting here wasn’t easy. It took us 9 years before we even realized that we both wanted it.
That’s why we created Openly. To help other couples understand their fantasies are more common than they think, and that they don’t need to suffer in silence. Once they build a strong relationship, they can begin exploring all their fantasies safely—
without jeopardizing the love they already have.
BENEFITS OF LIVING OPENLY
FALL BACK IN LOVE
WITH YOUR PARTNER
Never Get Bored
With Your Sex Life Again
Let’s be real—routine kills
the spark. By living Openly you’ll break out of that rut and add novelty back
to your bedroom.
Finally EXPLORE
That Threesome
No more fantasizing about
it. Do it the right way—
where boundaries are respected, and you both
feel safe and in control.
TOTALLY REINVENT
DATE NIGHTS
Swap out the usual for laughing, flirting & the thrill
of the unknown again—
then take that energy
straight to the bedroom.
Remember the spark you had? Openly helps you bring it back—so you feel crazy in love again, like you did
when it all started.
It’s more than just the best sex of your life.
ARE YOU READY FOR MORE?
Non-monogamy will unlock all your sexual fantasies
& fulfill your deepest desires, but it isn't for everyone.
Take our Relationship Readiness Quiz to find out if it’s for you.
HI, We’re PB & J.
And a few years ago, we were in your shoes—
Now? We’ve gone from perfectly happy to → Ridiculously Happy.
At Openly, we’re here to demystify Swinging & Ethical Non-Monogamy,
and help other couples see it for what it truly is…
An incredible way to bond with your bestie— with love.
Happily Married, but stuck in a sexual rut.
Having infrequent & unsatisfying sex.
Unable to discuss our desires.
STRENGTHEN THE CORE
OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP
• Inject a Ton of Novelty into Your Sex Life
• Communicate Your Desires & Boundaries
• Become a Better Partner in Every Way Possible
Make Every Day Feel Like Your Honeymoon.
The perfect starting point for couples looking to revitalize their relationship, but who aren’t
ready or interested in swinging.
You’ll Learn How To Speak Openly and:
OPEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
TO NEW POSSIBILITIES
START LIVING OPENLY
• Have Your First of Many Threesomes
• Explore All of Your Sexual Fantasies
• Never Hide Away From Your Desires
Choose a path that you’re most comfortable with.
STAY
MONOGAMOUS
ENJOY
GROUP SEX
Transform Your Relationship into Your Fantasy.
The complete guide for couples who are ready to
begin adding more people to their bedroom and
want to unlock their full sexual potential.
You’ll Learn How To Live Openly and:
Start having better sex today.
Download our Free Blueprint to Better Sex Guide & tick off
all the items on your sexual bucket list.
Discover every desire & fantasy, and
openly explore them at home.
Real couples. Real Talk.
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"Our friends used to judge us. Now they ask us for relationship advice"
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“I was nervous to ask. Turns out, my wife wanted the same fantasy as I did”
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"I get to be my true honest self, without fear. Living Openly is a life hack."
Not sure if you're ready to open up?
We get it—opening up your relationship feels scary.
You love your partner but wonder: could this change everything?
The truth is: taking your time is key.
That’s why, at Openly, there’s no need to rush into anything.
Each couple can move at whatever pace feels comfortable to them.
But if you still have some concerns, don’t worry…
We’ve got all the answers for you.
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and helpful guides for preparing your relationship safely at home.
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